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Accepting is NOT Endorsing

Accepting is NOT Endorsing

In a small village by the river, there once lived a man named Raghav. But unlike most, Raghav was feared and hated by all. Years ago, Raghav had committed unforgivable acts. He cheated the poor farmers of their hard-earned money, leaving them with barren fields and empty stomachs. One stormy night, in a drunken rage, he even stole from the village temple—snatching precious offerings meant for the gods. That night, as the village slept, the holy fire in the temple dimmed, as if the gods themselves were displeased.

But Raghav’s worst deed was one that scarred the village deeply. In a fit of anger, he had falsely accused his own brother of theft, causing him to be driven away in shame. His brother, heartbroken, disappeared into the forests, never to return. The villagers, outraged by Raghav’s cruelty, threw him out. “You are cursed!” they spat, as they drove him to the edge of the village. He had become a shadow, shunned and despised by everyone.

For years, Raghav lived alone in a small, dilapidated hut, surviving on scraps and shame. The loneliness clawed at his heart, but the walls of hatred the villagers built around him were too high for him to climb. Raghav knew he had made mistakes, but every time he thought of making amends, the weight of his guilt held him back.

One day, a saint named Jivananda arrived in the village, known far and wide for his wisdom. People from surrounding villages came to seek his guidance. His peaceful presence was like a balm to everyone who met him. Even Raghav, from his isolated hut, heard whispers of the saint’s arrival.

One evening, driven by a strange pull he couldn’t explain, Raghav gathered the courage to approach the saint. As he walked through the village, the familiar whispers followed him. “Look, the thief dares show his face!” “The gods will never forgive him!” Mothers pulled their children away as Raghav walked past, but this time, he kept going.

When Raghav reached Jivananda’s hut, the villagers, who had gathered there for the saint’s teachings, gasped in shock. “What is this monster doing here?” they muttered, furious. They expected the saint to send him away in disgust.

But to their surprise, Jivananda rose from his seat, smiled warmly at Raghav, and invited him to sit. Raghav, trembling with shame, lowered his head. The villagers couldn’t believe it. “How can the saint sit with such a sinner?” they whispered angrily.

Unable to hold their frustration any longer, a villager shouted, “Baba, this man is a criminal! He’s hurt us all. How can you accept him?”

Jivananda looked at the crowd and spoke gently, “I know of Raghav’s past. But tell me, does rejecting him again help him or us? By pushing him further away, we trap him in his mistakes. My acceptance of him does not mean I endorse his wrongs. It means his actions do not disturb my peace. When we accept someone, we give them space to change. Isn’t that more powerful than hate?”

The villagers were taken aback by the saint’s words, but many were still sceptical. Raghav, however, sat silently, overwhelmed by the saint’s kindness. For the first time in years, someone had treated him as a human being.

Days passed, and Raghav began visiting Jivananda regularly. The saint never condemned him, nor did he absolve him of his past. Instead, through his calm words, Jivananda gently helped Raghav reflect on his life. “Peace comes when we face our past, not run from it,” the saint told him.

One day, the village was struck by tragedy—a great fire broke out, and the flames quickly spread toward the temple. As the villagers scrambled to put it out, Raghav, without a second thought, rushed into the temple, saving the sacred statues from the fire. He risked his life, suffering burns, but his efforts saved the heart of the village.

That night, as Raghav lay in the saint’s hut, recovering from his injuries, the villagers gathered outside. They were silent, unsure of what to feel. The man they had hated had just saved the very temple he had once wronged.

The next morning, Raghav stood before the villagers, his hands shaking but his voice steady. “I cannot change the past, and I don’t ask for forgiveness. But I wish to make things right, however I can.”

Moved by Raghav’s actions and sincerity, one of the elders stepped forward and placed a hand on his shoulder. “The fire you saved is the same one you once tried to extinguish. We see your heart has changed.” Slowly, the villagers began to nod in agreement. One by one, they stepped forward to acknowledge Raghav, not because they had forgotten his past, but because they could see his transformation.

From that day, Raghav became a part of the village once again—not as a sinner seeking redemption, but as a man who had learned that acceptance, both from others and himself, was the path to true change.

The saint’s words echoed in the hearts of all: “Accepting others doesn’t mean endorsing their wrongs. It gives them the strength to transform.”