Virendra and his spirited three-year-old daughter, Monica were the two members in a compact apartment in upscale Mumbai. Their home was filled with love and laughter, but they had also endured a profound loss. Virendra’s wife had passed away during childbirth, leaving him to navigate the journey of parenthood, all alone.
Virendra had no time for remorse. From the moment Monica was born, Virendra knew that he had to be both mother and father to her. So, he showered her with love and affection, but he also understood the importance of setting boundaries and instilling discipline.
As Monica grew up, Virendra faced the challenge of balancing her needs without indulging in pampering. When Monica cried for a new toy or a sweet treat, Virendra gently explained the importance of gratitude and moderation. He taught her that happiness comes from within, not from material possessions.
Despite his firm guidance, Virendra always made sure that Monica felt loved and accepted. He listened to her stories with genuine interest, celebrated her achievements, and comforted her in times of sadness. Through his unwavering support, Monica learned that she could always count on her father to be there for her.
But acceptance did not mean turning a blind eye to Monica’s mistakes. When she misbehaved or disobeyed, Virendra addressed the issue with patience and understanding. He calmly explained why her actions were wrong and encouraged her to learn from her mistakes.
One day, Monica threw a tantrum in the grocery store, demanding a chocolate bar. Virendra knelt down to her level and spoke to her in a gentle but firm tone. He explained that throwing tantrums was not acceptable behaviour and that they would talk about it when they got home.
Monica’s lower lip quivered, but she nodded in understanding. When they returned home, Virendra sat down with Monica and asked her to explain why she had behaved the way she did. Through their conversation, Monica realized that her actions had consequences and that her father would always hold her accountable.
As Monica grew older, Virendra continued to guide her with love and acceptance. He watched with pride as she blossomed into a confident and compassionate young girl, unafraid to face life’s challenges head-on.
Through his parenting journey, Virendra learned that
acceptance is not about pampering or indulgence. It is about empowering and
guiding with love and understanding. And as he looked at his daughter, he knew
that their bond was stronger than ever, built on a foundation of acceptance and
unconditional love.