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Mistake of Controlling!

Asha paced the living room, glancing at the clock for the hundredth time. It was 6 p.m., and Samiksha wasn’t home yet. Her phone calls had gone unanswered, and Asha’s worry had turned to frustration. She felt the familiar tightness in her chest—anxiety mixed with the fear of losing control over her daughter’s life.

Finally, the door creaked open, and Samiksha strolled in, completely unfazed. She tossed her bag onto the couch and headed straight for her room without so much as a word.

“Samiksha!” Asha’s voice rang out sharply. “Where have you been? I’ve been calling you! You’re two hours late!”

Samiksha stopped in her tracks, her expression already showing the irritation Asha had seen too many times recently. “I was at Nisha’s. I told you, we’re working on the science project.”

“Don’t give me that excuse!” Asha snapped, stepping closer. “Nisha’s a bad influence. You know I don’t like you spending time with her. You’re always late, your grades are slipping, and you don’t even listen to me anymore! I don’t know what’s gotten into you!”

Samiksha’s face tightened. “Mom, we’re working on a project. Why do you always assume the worst? I’m not a little kid anymore!”

“You’re acting like one!” Asha shot back. “As long as you’re living under this roof, you’ll follow my rules. And my rule is, you stop hanging out with Nisha. Do you understand?”

That was it. The final push. Samiksha exploded.

“I’m done!” Samiksha screamed, her voice shaking with emotion. “I’m done living like this! You control everything—who I talk to, where I go, what I do. I can’t breathe, Mom! You’re suffocating me!”

Asha stood frozen, stunned by the intensity in Samiksha’s voice.

“I’m not your puppet!” Samiksha continued, tears welling up in her eyes. “Do you even know what it feels like to have every move judged? I’m constantly walking on eggshells, trying to make you happy. But guess what? Nothing I do is ever enough for you!”

Asha’s heart pounded in her chest. She had never seen Samiksha like this—so raw, so hurt. But before she could say anything, Samiksha dropped the bombshell that pierced through Asha’s world.

“I hate living here! I hate feeling like I don’t have control over my own life. You act like you’re protecting me, but you’re just controlling me. If I had a choice, I’d leave this house right now!”

The words hit Asha like a slap across the face. Samiksha’s tears, her trembling voice, her desperation—it was all too real. Asha opened her mouth to speak, but no words came out. For the first time, she was speechless.

Samiksha stormed off to her room, slamming the door behind her. The echo of the door reverberated in Asha’s ears, shaking something deep within her.

Asha sank onto the couch, her mind spinning. “Leave this house?” Those words haunted her. She had always thought she was doing the right thing, controlling Samiksha’s life to protect her. But in her need to control, she had pushed her own daughter to the brink of breaking.

Her hands shook as she tried to process what had just happened. She thought back to her own childhood—how she had hated when her parents dictated her every move. How she had sworn she’d never do that to her own children. And here she was, repeating the same mistakes.

The realization was painful, but it was undeniable. Asha had been trying to control Samiksha, not protect her. And she was losing her in the process.

An hour later, Asha found herself standing outside Samiksha’s room. She knocked softly.

“Samiksha?” she called gently, her voice barely above a whisper.

There was silence for a moment, then the door creaked open. Samiksha stood there, her eyes puffy from crying, looking as vulnerable as Asha had ever seen her.

Asha took a deep breath, her heart aching. “I’m sorry,” she said, her voice breaking. “I didn’t realize how much I was hurting you. I thought I was helping you, but in reality I was controlling everything because I was scared of losing you.”

Samiksha didn’t say anything, but she didn’t shut the door either.

Asha continued, her eyes filling with tears. “I love you, Samiksha. I just… I need to trust you more. You deserve to make your own choices, and I need to let go. I don’t want you to leave to live your life. I want us to work through this together.”

Samiksha’s eyes softened. After what felt like an eternity, she nodded slowly, stepping aside to let her mother in.

For the first time in months, they sat together, not as mother and daughter caught in a power struggle, but as two people who were ready to understand each other. Asha knew it wouldn’t be easy, but she was ready to change. Letting go of control wasn’t a loss—it was the first step toward rebuilding the trust that mattered more than anything.