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Time doesn’t heal always!

At the outskirts of Varanasi, lived a humble potter named Christian. He was known for crafting beautiful clay pots that were famous throughout the region. Christian had a loving family, a small house near the river, and a peaceful life. But one event changed everything.

One hot summer day, Christian’s teenage son, Alex, accidentally broke one of his most cherished pots. The pot had taken weeks to make and was intended as a gift for a local festival. When Christian saw the shattered pieces on the ground, he felt a rush of anger.

“Why didn’t you be more careful?” Christian shouted at Alex. His face was red with fury, and his voice echoed through their modest home.

Alex was taken aback. “I’m sorry, Baba. I didn’t mean to. It was an accident.”

But Christian’s anger didn’t fade. He was too upset to listen. He stormed out of the house, leaving Alex standing alone, feeling hurt and ashamed. Christian’s anger was like a burning fire, consuming him completely.

Days turned into weeks. Christian tried to move past the incident, but the anger still simmered inside him. He spent less time with Alex, and their conversations became rare and awkward. Alex felt the cold distance growing between them. The once warm home now felt like a place of silent tension.

One evening, Christian’s old friend, Arun, visited him. Arun had been a close friend since childhood and knew Christian well. Seeing Christian’s distant expression, Arun asked, “What’s troubling you, my friend?”

Christian sighed deeply. “It’s this broken pot. I’m still so angry. It’s been weeks, but I can’t seem to let it go.”

Arun nodded understandingly. “Anger and hurt create emotional wounds, Christian. Time alone doesn’t heal them; it only hides them. You need to address these wounds directly, not just wait for them to disappear.”

Christian thought about Arun’s words. He realized that his anger had caused more damage than the broken pot ever could. He had allowed his feelings to build a wall between him and his son.

The next day, Christian approached Alex, who was working quietly on a new pot. Christian took a deep breath and spoke softly, “Alex, I’m sorry for how I reacted. I let my anger control me, and it hurt us both. I want to make things right.”

Alex looked up with hopeful eyes. “I’m sorry too, Baba. I never meant to cause you any pain.”

Christian and Alex hugged each other tightly. From that moment, they worked together to repair their relationship, much like how Christian repaired broken pots. They spent time talking, sharing, and laughing. Their bond grew stronger, and the warmth returned to their home.

Christian learned a valuable lesson that day. Anger and hurt might create wounds but addressing them openly and sincerely is the only way to heal. Time alone won’t fix these wounds; it’s the effort to understand and mend that truly brings peace.

From then on, Christian and Alex lived with a renewed sense of connection. Their home was filled with the sound of laughter and love, proving that while time may not heal emotional wounds, understanding and forgiveness can.